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This was sent to be by a lady friend. It is good info to pass along.
I think carrying a dummy wallet, in your opposite pocket or purse, would be a good thing to throw down away from a robber to distract them while you pull your gun or beat feet. Sorry Pkato, considerably longer than 3 lines...

Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)

When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to my lady friends, but I forwarded it to most everyone in my address book. My men friends have female friends and this Information is too important to miss someone.

Please pass it along and share it with your children.

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle . They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed . They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair . Women with short hair are not common targets.

2) The second thing men look for is clothing . They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly . Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.

3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse, or doing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.

4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5: 00 a.m.and 8:30a.m.

5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots . The number two: office parking lots/garages. Number three: public restrooms .

6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.

8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas , or other similar objects that can be used from a distance , in their hands .

Keys are NOT a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question , like what time is it? , or make general small talk: ' I can't believe it is so cold out here ,' ' We're in for a bad winter .' Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.

11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP! or STAY BACK! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back . Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes), yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

13) If someone grabs you , you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them . If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the Arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD . One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.

14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN . I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful . You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and he's out of there .

15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible . The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!

You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do : The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide in :City :place New Orleans : If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM . Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF , repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF ! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5 A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot or parking garage:

A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.

B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.

IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times. And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP! It may get you raped or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her 'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.'

The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.

Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby --- This should be taken seriously because the Crying Baby theory was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in Louisiana .

This is a PSM by samD

7 years 43 weeks ago, 3:06 PM

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wow. the crying baby thing is kind of creepy

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7 years 43 weeks ago, 3:28 PM

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EXTREMELY CREEPY!

EXTREMELY CREEPY!

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7 years 43 weeks ago, 3:47 PM

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Thank you, so much, samD !!

Too old to fight, Too old to run, guess that's why I carry a gun! "would someone show this asshole the way out of town".[Rabbi Avram Belinski-aka "The Frisco Kid"]
7 years 43 weeks ago, 5:15 PM

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OK...great information and I did read it all. I am forwarding this to my Mother, Sister-in-law and daughter immediately.

Patrolman Kato
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7 years 39 weeks ago, 2:15 AM

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SamD

Thanks--you shared a great deal of helpful information

7 years 39 weeks ago, 11:46 AM

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Thanks!

i emailed this out to just about everyone on my mailing list and printed a copy for my girlfriend and my sister. yeah... that crying baby part creeped me out, too.

7 years 34 weeks ago, 10:42 AM

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Rapists should die!

If you have a gun and someone tries to rape you, please...shoot off their genitals and then shoot them dead! Make it so they won't be contributing to the gene pool anymore!
Thanks!

Freedom isn't free. We must fight constantly for our rights! FIGHT ON TRUE AMERICANS!
7 years 34 weeks ago, 11:36 AM

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This is VERY poor advice, and, if followed, will very probably land the shooter in the pokey for a long sentence.

Too old to fight, Too old to run, guess that's why I carry a gun! "would someone show this asshole the way out of town".[Rabbi Avram Belinski-aka "The Frisco Kid"]
7 years 34 weeks ago, 11:52 AM

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Calm down, bulletboy

I think NavySeal and BenJB have a spot in the bunker for you. Go have a seat and wait for the opportunity to shoot guys in the balls.

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7 years 34 weeks ago, 12:26 PM

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good info here an boy are there some creepy sick people out there an to think they dont think twice is the worst part about it very sad also.....

any who poses a threat to me or my team must die!!!
7 years 34 weeks ago, 3:49 PM

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Another tip

When approaching your car, if something doesn't seem right, you can "accidentally" drop your keys. When you stoop down to pick them up, it'll give you a chance to scan your surroundings without looking too paranoid. It's very useful for checking under vehicles for people hiding under or behind vehicles.

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7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:00 PM

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or

go in gunz blazing and unleash hell.

7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:06 PM

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I would try that

But I love my trailblazer. And you shouldn't either. Not with your piece of manly machinery.

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7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:15 PM

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What do ya mean piece of manly machinery?

7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:16 PM

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I think he's talking about your race car

"Proelium Comminus Auctoritate" "Sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel is a muzzle flash."
7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:19 PM

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Yes, yes. the car

I'M NOT GAY!!! Stop yelling, please. OKAY!!! Oh, that's me. Uh, yeah. The car.

"I have always been a soldier. I have known no other life. The calling of arms, I have followed from boyhood. I have never sought another." From The Virtues of War, by Steven Pressfield.
7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:29 PM

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REAPER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do ya ever watch "KING OF THE HILL"

Well its the first time i Have EVER done a Hank Hill Moment. Here goes.

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Runwaygun762 is gay...who knew?? Just keep your distance from me runaway762. Cause people get shot in other states.

7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:33 PM

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What makes you think I'd wanna do you? You think too highly of yourself, there, spanky.

"I have always been a soldier. I have known no other life. The calling of arms, I have followed from boyhood. I have never sought another." From The Virtues of War, by Steven Pressfield.
7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:37 PM

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watch it. snakey be a

watch it. snakey be a sniper, he might be able to get a clean shot off from Virginia

"Proelium Comminus Auctoritate" "Sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel is a muzzle flash."
7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:43 PM

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HEY HEY HEY

Im just F ing with ya..........

7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:45 PM

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you've got me confused with the Hank Hill comment. I don't know if you want to swallow my kids or kill me

"Proelium Comminus Auctoritate" "Sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel is a muzzle flash."
7 years 34 weeks ago, 4:59 PM

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Reaper

If ya seen tha show then you would know what i mean so i gonna explane....

When Hank Hill Is suprised he goes Whaaaaaaaaa!!!!
When he is Pissed he says " IM gonna kick your ass"

Get it now? Or do I have to post a link.

7 years 34 weeks ago, 10:21 PM

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can you post a link or

can you post a link or something?

"Proelium Comminus Auctoritate" "Sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel is a muzzle flash."
7 years 33 weeks ago, 6:33 PM

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REAPER308

As you all tell me.......GOOGLE THE FUCKING THING

7 years 32 weeks ago, 7:21 PM

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Thanks bud I copied your warning and sent it to a lot of people.

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