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3 years 48 weeks ago, 10:52 PM

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Women!! They Suck!!

So this is just a way off topic post about my recent experience. U guys can delete it if it bother you. Just need to rant a bit and this place is kind of like a bar...so here goes. Dated this girl for 6 months. Loved her. She said she loved me. 7 weeks ago we were supposed to be to a george strait concert, she called and said she had a headache didn't want to go. I met her and sat in her car with her, she was very offstandish, didn't want to kiss me. The week before this, I could never get a hold of her on the phone anymore. She had excuses...I was asleep..at 6 pm. I went horseback riding and left my phone in teh truck and didtn' get it till the next morning. And at this same time her posts on mypsace were that her mood was "curious" then the next day "selective" with a winky face. Anyway, the night of the cancelled concert, she still had the tickets. I called her to see if she was feeling better later, no answer, kept calling during the time of concert, never an answer. And that day I saw her in the car, was the last time I ever seen her or talked to her. For 6 weeks I tried to call the girl, text, she would never answer. Finally got an email saying that she thinks I'm a wonderful man, but there is a lot going on in her life and she doesn't want to be in a realtionship with anyone anymore. This was just last week. So, Today, I went to Gander Moutnain, then decided maybe I'd see what was on the movies. I get out of the truck and what do I see in front of me....her holding hands with a guy. So I just passed on my and texted her that she is a liar. She sent about 5 texts back, I"m sure saying not very good things, but I didn't read them, just delted them. But, I'm glad at least it happened now and that now I know the truth. I was ready to marry the girl. And the last thing she said to me on the last day I seen her was "I can't imagine a life without you". Women. Such liars. I really don't know what to do with myself now. I did try and consule myself by buying a Sprinfield M1A. That helped a little. Take Care guys. Brad.

3 years 48 weeks ago, 10:59 PM

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its ok brad

dont worry about it,plenty of fish in the sea and plenty of time!

I'm just another damn yankee with a loaded gun looking for some fun!
3 years 48 weeks ago, 11:02 PM

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That sucks man, most women will do that to you. Soon enough youll get the right fish and itll all work out. I thank God everyday that I got so lucky. But ill tell you for some reason I had to go threw all the trash to find the gold. :) Go shootin, it always helps.

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3 years 48 weeks ago, 11:11 PM

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Brad

HEy dont give up. Youll find a woman sooner or later. Dames....Who can figure 'em!

3 years 48 weeks ago, 11:49 PM

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THanks guys. I appreciate it.

3 years 48 weeks ago, 12:33 AM

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Catfish

That whole bad experience is on her. You're a good guy, the same good guy you were before you started a relationship with her.
If it were me, I'd just say, "Fuck her", and move on. I can't tell you what to do, since you're a responsible adult, and you can and should make your own decisions.
I don't know how to tell you to pick a good woman. I don't know if anybody does.

I can see one good thing that came of this - you didn't marry her. What if you had, then she met another guy and decided to dump you? That would be a hell of a lot worse, as many, many men can tell you.

If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and a man. (Mark Twain).
3 years 48 weeks ago, 12:48 AM

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catfeesh, sorry dude thats ugly. count your blessings. When I was dating my ex (actually a little more than that) I was at her house, the phone was ringing and she asked me to pick up the phone. I answered and a guy was on the other end. My ex asked who it was, I said it is (his name) and she freaked, grabbed the phone and took off to her room for 30 min. I found out later, she dumped the guy she was with right then. She traded up to me. I never met the guy, I guess I assumed she was trading up to me. At least thats MY story lol Women can be cruel.

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3 years 48 weeks ago, 1:41 AM

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that Springfield M1A

will never let you down like that! Dust yerself off,it sucks but your a lucky guy that you didn't marry and then have it go bad.To bad you lost out on the george Strait concert,damn!Whatever she says now in those text messages are meaningless,as you already know,next round of drinks are on me.

i tried being reasonable,i didn't like it, NRA LIFE MEMBER,USMC VETERAN
3 years 48 weeks ago, 9:55 AM

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are the cheaters!!! I call bullshit on that ore women that I know then than men have always been the cheaters. It's hard to understand right now but you ae better off without her. Once a cheater always a cheater.

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3 years 48 weeks ago, 10:42 AM

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Women

Don't like to be the ones to break things off...that is just their
mentality...she acted like that hoping you would just get sick
of her shit. Honestly man...you are better off and although
you may not think so now...trust me, (and everyone else) - you
are way better off!

Patrolman Kato
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They are the American people's liberty teeth and keystone
under independence. -- George Washington
3 years 48 weeks ago, 10:32 AM

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Trying to get a smile out of ya buddy.. Admire you for telling us.. Fact is it does help to get it off your chest.. I'm positive that you did the right thing by not reading / responding to the messages.

Women come in good and bad just like us guys.. This one was a looser..That six week thing when she let you hang out there is just wrong guy.. and on some sick levil she liked hurting you, or she wouldn't have put you thru it.. Ask yourself how you would have treated a girl you didn't want to see.. I'm pretty sure you would have been concerned enough with her feelings to talk to her straight up..

Thing is that now that you don't want her this is the kind that might want you back.. Buddy you have .. what.. maybe a dozen guys on here .. Promise you that objectively all of us are going to tell you this is nothing but future hurt you have just gotten rid off.. Reread Lucky's comment..

a man has to hold his word, hold his beliefs, and hold a good sight picture.
3 years 48 weeks ago, 8:11 AM

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all it cost u was

time, think if you had married that hog than had kids with her. thats at least 18 more years you would have had to interact with her. thank GOD she showed her true colors early. this way u pick yourself up, bust yourself off and keep on truckin. pretty soon you will find the one for you. never chase a bus or a woman, cuz there will be another one coming around the corner before long...good luck sir.

It's been a long hard road. but I'm still truckin!!
3 years 48 weeks ago, 8:48 AM

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Brad,

having been married to not one but two "losers" myself and having kids with
both (which I have had to raise myself) I would echo what others have said,
you are one lucky SOB having found out sooner than later. I have found
that most women enjoy playing games and find it hard to make logical and
sound decisions, hang in there dude a good one will come along.

Change you can truly believe in comes from the barrel of a gun---------------------------------------------------------------------------------Ron Paul 2012----Vote the bastards out!---------------------------------
3 years 47 weeks ago, 10:38 AM

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Go fix some hot chick's spine. Worked for that doctor on Lost. Wait. She cheated on him. Go fuck some hot nurses. Tell you what, find some chick and giver her the Texas Snowplow. That'll teach them split tails.

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